Reflection...

I got to wake up at sometime after noon today, because i was not woken up by a phone call today, and went down to Banana Republic to pick up the other part to my suit. I must say I do look fucking hot it (hope to get a Co-Op with it *cross fingers). I get back to my room and read a short article titled
"Two Things that Will Break a Man". I must say I was alittle interested in what it said. If you guys wanted to read it.. (or skip to line part)
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There are two things that evey man can live with out, but by having the power to control them you can control him. Break his spirit and break his will.

1) Money
2) Sex

Think of the things we do for moeny, the sacrifieces we make to keep and hold a job. We work 50 hours a week in return for two weeks vacation and a paycheck. or that we allow ourselves to be told when to show up, where to go and what to do, doing things we may or may not like to do, and by people we may or may not like (depends on your situation). In return for our pay we are good little kept workers, jumping whenever we are told.

Sex, ever woman has known this for centuries, and thier mothers have know this and their grandmothers have know this, and by god they use ti every chance they get. It's how they they turn us from free range animals into boyfriends, and then eventually get us to play house with them and make us in to husbands and fathers. We will give up great freedoms to have sex, we will spend all kind of money on clothes, dress up real nice, and spend money or drinks at an over priced bar just to get it. When we'd much rather blow that money on a new flat screen TV, or season tickets to the Bruins.

For those non single times, they have thier price too, they get broken in and trained, to remeber important dates on which they should produce gifts to curry the favor of their partner, and avoid their wrath, such as aniversaries, birthday's , christmas, and the like. and we seem happy to do it.
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When we give a gift do we do it for love, or becuase we feel this way? Yes sex is a big part of any guy, so controlling our sex intake is like keeping a dog on a leesh. We understand that all dogs should be on leeshes, but no guy can be on a choker. So do people feel the way this guy does above, do some us worry alot about our lovers, or are you wondering ray where the fuck are you going with this?

LOL, well I the best way to describe the dating life was to do what this guy did and list the phases of dating like DATTING 201 (I USED 2 instead of 1 because I can *sticks tongue out). So here it is:

My take on Dating, In a time scale

0-1month
Now I know this article has very poor grammer, lol. I did try to correct some to ge tthe main point across, but it is true in some ways. Usually when u date someone you spend the first month in the love phase. Everythings exciting, you cant wait for the first kiss, possibly sex, holding hands, cuddling to a movie or in the theater. And then that first month anniversary to seal ur love by giving them a gift to show them you do love them. But what about after the exciting love is gone (which always happens after the month) I dont mean love is gone, but the shock factor is gone? What happens?

1-2 months
This is the scariest part in a relationship. Cuz now that all the fun and excitement is over, you have to decide if u like them or not, maybe eveif you want to say the "L" word (shutter). If you make it through two months, you know they like you, so you dont worry anymore and now trust them

2 months - 1 year.
I've only done this scenario once (4 months long), but when your here you know not to worry any more cuz you have each other and theres something there. Refering back to the article, I dont think gifts become mandatory, atleast for me, they actually become a choice thing. I know personally i dont want things for my birthday or holidays during this time because then their really not doing anything but following the god written law, Birthday= give lover a present. I personally dont try to follow the rule but end up doing it anyways cuz i love them and I want to.

1+ years
This is the second scariest part in the relationship. However, If you are here congrats, u gone further than me as of this moment. I think now its aparent u love them, but the question now is, do u want them for the rest of your life. If you love them and only uncertain dont panic, its okay, because if you knew aready that they were the one, you would be proposing marriage. But if you reached this time and you have doubts or you still are your fouling around with other people without your partner being okay or even knowing, you need to break it off. Cuz once your here, u need to realize life is short, and start deciding a plan.

In the end, relationships are what you make of it. Honesty is the light and only key to a relationship. Without total honsety (and the occasional white lie) I thing you chance a relationship. If you love someone dont worry, be yourself..... cuz if they like you back or if your relationship is meant to be, your never lose them because neither of you will let it end.

Have a good night sleep and cuddle with the one you love, they may night say it but they will think tonight how much they love you.